What Forgiveness Takes

Published on March 25, 2026

Shortly after I began the year with some blessings, a friend sent me Lucille Clifton’s spare, splendid poem “blessing the boats.” We had met at a poetry workshop and shared a resolution to write more poetry in the coming year, so we began taking turns each week choosing a line from a favorite poem to use as a joint prompt. The wonderful thing about minds, about the dazzling variousness of them, is what different things can bloom in them from the same seed.

In our exploration of poetry, forgiveness emerged as a profound theme noticeably woven into the fabric of our creative discussions. I had been reflecting on forgiveness and its quiet power to dislodge the lump of blame that often festers in the heart. It is a liberating act that can untether us from the weight of past grievances and betrayals.

Forgiveness does not imply condoning wrongdoing. Instead, it is about releasing the emotional burden that can consume us. It allows us to reclaim our peace and restore our well-being. Embracing forgiveness can foster healing not just for ourselves but also for our relationships and communities.

As I engaged with various poetic lines, the notion of forgiveness became more illuminated. Each week, our chosen prompts bloomed into diverse interpretations, reflecting our individual experiences and struggles with the concept. The poetry workshop became a sanctuary where words morph into understanding and eventually evolve into acceptance.

This year, as the curtain rises on new possibilities, I have found solace in grasping the intricate threads of forgiveness. Writing poetry has allowed me to delve deeper into this complex emotion, transforming it into a tangible narrative. I have learned that forgiveness is an act of courage, one that requires vulnerability and the willingness to confront our emotional landscapes.

Ultimately, the journey of forgiveness is as unique as each individual. It can be messy and nonlinear, a winding path filled with reflection and introspection. However, as we commit to the act, we might discover that forgiveness is, in many ways, not just a destination but a practice—a practice that nurtures compassion, understanding, and perhaps, an unshakeable sense of peace.